ABOUT MY DHARMA

My Mission In Life...

Being a Researcher I cannot help myself not to question everything

I have long understood that questions are more important than answers

Be assured that I am exactly where I should be

I write to bring changes about Being

My essence is to always put forward my passion for teaching, non only on the game on tennis and sport sciences, but also on being the best human being that we can possibly be

An intellectual must take his distance from society as he is an idea builder, culture and myths

Character precedes every action !

My Philosophy of Processes: Words are means of communicating, Ideas are ways of doing things,

Concepts are for explaining new processes, Paradigms are frame of references, Paradoxes are contradictions in being

Expectations

Whoever we are in life creates an expectation that we are to take care of everyone around us, being able to make a difference in everyone’s life and this is impossible. We live in a world of expectation where everything is due to everyone but in reality, nothing is due to us. But in fact we must earn everything ! So what matters for us in terms of making a difference in someone’s life is to be available when it matters, being there when it matters... That should be our personal mission

When I was young, I was extremely attracted and had a profound admiration for the person who allowed to me the privilege of his/her wisdom. Today, after such a long journey in life, I understand why

I am all passion, I breath passion, I live with passion. I would not live any other way

My true value, as a human being, is not measured through my economic success or power, but through my making contributions for the well being of other human lives

JL's Becoming

I have been busy over the years creating, inventing, having a vision for things that should be ! Most of all, I have been busy to become what I was meant to BE !

A whole life and career, have provided me wonderful circumstances to be a Coach, a Teacher, an Educator, a Concepter, a Designer, a Professor, Researcher and Knowledge Engineer. Always being in the pursuit of Excellence, and more, never being satisfied, never being content with who I am. Always pushing myself, always extending myself. The pleasure of going beyond myself. But my favourite roles are Coach/Professor and in my new path in life is to go back to them, but under very special circumstances and with special individuals

Who I am is the most precious thing I have. What I have become comes from such a long journey with so many ambushes, sometimes going to hell and back. Today I have reflections embracing changes in my life as a mean of cultivating new perspectives and inspiration. I have become the WHY I am

I am a seeker looking to transmit a sense of understanding

I have found my path because I had access to it !

My desire is to have a vision and a capacity to go beyond myself in order to share. I want to touch and open eyes saying or doing things that have not been done before. As a Researcher I want to share my knowledge and make us more responsible of what we contribute in our profession as an educator, as a teacher, as a coach in this wonderful world of tennis

My Philosophy of Processes: Words are means of communicating, Ideas are ways of doing things, Concepts are for explaining new processes, Paradigms are frames of references, Paradoxes are contradictions in being

I don’t need anyone to tell me if I am right, I know when I am right. But if I am like this, it’s because I don’t always need to be RIGHT. The wisdom to know the price to pay, to be always RIGHT

When I find an obsession, then I find a reason to write and I have a reason to create

One of JL’s rules: Work always hard, play happy, don't play for someone else, play for yourself !Mental healing: I can handle this world. The "what if" can generate guilt, make a shift in your mind

My Champion’s profile: Always does his homework and duties, always does what others dislike most and in the end, he does not know being contempt

My Coaching of a Champion: With a Champion you don't change big things, just small things, cause they do wonders for him/her. You have to remember that a Champion got where he/she is because they had something. But then there are also the questions to be asked and answers to be questioned !

My Concept of Chance in Education: Bring someone to a chance, having a chance, what to do with the chance, what to do if you never had a chance, provoke the chance

My coping with success - Dealing with two major particularities: False sense of importance, Right sense of Importance, dealing with the consequences attached to them. The brain and its two sides: The left (rational) which keeps you safe and in order, the right (emotional) which warns you when you've gone far enough

My own Specificity: Dreamer or visionary, dreamer of words or ideas, developing a system of thought, wishing to always provide a great encounter

My price of Excellence: Excellence can be attained if you Care more than others think is wise, Risk more than others think is safe, Dream more than others think is practical and Expect more than others think is possible

For me Perfection: Is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away

My Philosophy of Education: Education's purpose is to replace an empty mind with an open one

I tend to see things that never were. And then I say Why Not ?

Growing Older for me is...

Being busy to provide my experience and some of the wisdom that is setting into my being. I have to allow this process as this is the only consolation for growing older

I guess the best comparison I can come up with, about being at the winter of my life, is like being at the top row in the middle of a stadium. Being there is being closer to the sky, somehow, seeing the whole field as the representation of your whole life. The left side is your birth and childhood and the far side to the right is where you're going to end up. But it is blurred, somehow not as clear as the left side. But I know that in relation to the right side my task is to make sure what I want to be remembered for during my passage on earth; being resourceful, useful and making a difference in the life of others for who I am as a person

So right now, at this moment of my life, my "busy ness" is to be useful and making a difference in the life of others, forgetting about me for now, forgetting my urgency about being, about future. My future is blurred like the right side of the field in the stadium

So I guess my best possible mission should be to show the path on the importance of what we should all do with our passage on earth, our contribution to a better world. And its not about having, not about power or getting an edge. It’s about "being", being good, being useful for the right reasons. Our collective future lies in how we can be good persons for one another, making a difference in the life of others because of who we are. It’s also about "giving" because our world has become one of "taking". It translates into the middle classes in societies across the world, disappearing, as the richer becomes richer and the poor becoming poorer, passing into misery, while everyone else is looking elsewhere, being too busy with "taking"

If I can achieve that, then the right side of the field will become clear for me. I will have become the person I was meant to be

Sometimes we may encounter odd individuals, paradoxical individuals. We have to pay attention to them, as we could very well have in front of us human beings capable of the most marvelous and unusual contributions, changing the course of things. Those individuals can disturb us and be interpellating of what lies deeply inside us, like a need or necessity

Privileged moment: Being able to listen comments, answers of a great expert in his domain of expertise, during the end of his life

I believe in writing everything that I want to remember. In this way instead of passing my time looking to remember, I take the time to find out where I have written it

When I have achieved something great or exceptional, I tell myself that it is only where I am at

Sometimes when someone reaches the wall and finds him/herself in despair, I tell them: "Stay calm, do not worry, look beyond the wall, you’ll find your answer there"

Sometimes when I look at my road path, it scares me. All the ambushes, all those dreams not realized, all the frustrations, all the deceptions, all the failures, all the successes, all the defeats, all the victories, all those combats. But then I tell myself if I have made such a long journey in my life, it was to become the best of me, right at this moment, for YOU

UNIVERSAL CONSCIOUSNESS

Global Awareness...

We have taken too much from Mother Earth in the name of the Sacred Economy

It takes 500 tress to offset the carbon monoxide of a car

Yet we are cutting down trees and we are putting more cars on the roads all over the planet

Kids have to have their own cars as their friends have otherwise

This is how imbecile and irresponsible human beings have become

It is sad but man is contributing to his own destruction at an unbelievable pace

While so many people in society say: "The world is to be taken". I say "The world should be given"!

Greatness has nothing to do with success or money ! It has something to do with what you can achieve for the better of Humanity !

We cure hearts and elevate souls

It is the "resistant" who makes history

You win wars and you buy peace

Life is what happens while others are making plans

Success for me isn’t about the money. It’s about what you create in History !

Critics and what they stand for: Those who watch the parade and can’t be part of it. They are the "little Joes of knowledge", "pretenders of knowledge". They are the kind of individuals who watch you dive in the water and once you come out, they’ll have something to say or question how you have done it. They are the "watchers" watching the "doers"

One of the major problems of today’s society is that we have to negotiate common sense. Even to the point of negotiating the common sense of common sense

In the last 100 years, the human being has destroyed millennium of what used to be the universe, all that in the name of the sacred economy, of his unconscience and collective irresponsibility

Why respect and conscience have disappeared in our societies

It has been revealed that the war in Irak is costing to the United States two billion a week. Such an enormous absurdity considering that the poor, the under privilege and those in life misery of this country are not taken care of. Tell me why the United States has more reasons to take care of the business of war

Unfortunately human absurdity and irresponsibility is perdurable

Why everything we have, we are going to lose it one day ? Why so few are prepared for that ?

What is happening to our world, to mother earth through our collective unconsciousness and irresponsibility ?

We all are consumers of planet earth and we all have an attitude, a selfish attitude, an unawareness attitude, looking elsewhere, taking everything for granted. But those attitudes will lead us to the end of times, planet earth can only absorb so much and if we don’t change, it will be the end of us in a near future. We have to become reasonable, we have no choice, we have to become responsible

On November 28th, 2005, around 10,000 representatives from nearly 190 governments, various environmental groups and businesses were attending the United Nations Climate Change Conference in Montreal, where it is hoped that detailed agreement will be reached on measures to effectively reduce the production of so-called greenhouse gases, held responsible for global warming and the gradual destruction of our ecosystem. But the most absurd situation is caused by the United States, which does not want to commit to the Kyoto Protocol, yet, they are responsible for 25 % of the emission of toxic gases in the Universe. Under what principle or value, the United States are adopting such a stand and be so irresponsible and come up with the excuse that if they did commit to the Kyoto Protocol, it would affect their economy? United States for such an irresponsible attitude and behavior will eventually be the victim of the boomerang effect. And it will come from nature itself, which has already started to manifest itself through all the hurricanes that are hitting their homeland. Unfortunately nature will dictate their economy, nature will place them into a state of constant reaction. They will face the law of consequences for their actions, for their choices and unfortunately they will not be able to escape that

But then this above mentioned disgraceful attitude should not be a surprise from a nation who was responsible for such inhuman gestures through the last century: the dropping of two atomic bombs in Japan destroying over half a million human lives, putting their nose into the Vietnam war where they lost face and last but not least, the destruction of Irak, just for the sake of catching Sadam Hussein, through the paranoia of George W Bush. Yet, when they suffer a September 11, they play the victim ! They police the whole world and when disaster hits their homeland, they are so disorganized and unable to fulfill the needs of the victims and the poor. That’s the kind of stuff this nation is made of !

Listening to George W Bush, when he was addressing the nation or the medias and the message he was sending in the process, was an insult to the intelligence of those who have to put up with him. Bush was trying to impose his ideas and although he had the power of doing it, he did not necessarily has the moral right. His sickening behavior of trying to rule the world was the product of his paranoia and in the process, was sacrificing another country and countless human lives, putting his nation into billions of debt to make war, just to satisfy is sickening insecurity. What he failed to realize, in the process, is that he was living the "consequences" of his actions, of his decisions and was dragging the whole nation into those consequences. There is a price to pay to rule the world and to exploit other nations in the process, to be grabbers and takers, to constantly make withdrawals from other nations and ruin the lives of their citizens. The most dangerous individuals are always those who are incapable, who do not have the courage, to admit or realize that they could be WRONG through their BEING

It's like when there is fire in your home, you have to know what to do. Believe me there is fire in our universe

What about facing reality that life on earth, in not so far future, will be without human being. With all the disasters occurring throughout the world, we may be witnessing the end of our world as over 1000 species are being destroyed annually

We are responsible for the cutting of over 50 % of our forests which is feeding the phenomena of tornados. Which is also contributing to the increase of the global temperature and toxic gas. This energy is carried into the tornados. Our forests are so badly managed in the name of production and economy

More population and more economy are contributing to our destruction

There is a great need of strong reaction of citizens of the world supported by strong mobilization. The best attitude to have is to do what must be done event if others are not doing anything about it

Mother EARTH has its limits and we have surpassed those limits through our unconscious and irresponsible behaviors

The disparity of wealth: wealthy people are becoming more wealthy and the poor people are becoming poorer, the disappearance of the middle class throughout the countries of the world. We have to realize that terrorism is the product of extreme poverty which has no more hope of normal living

We have to create a planet consciousness and act through the principle of consequence and be responsible. We suffer collectively of unconsciousness and a great lack of attention of what we do, what we cause to our universe

We have solar energy available and if we learn how to exploit it, it has the advantage of not causing toxic gases. The global warming is caused mainly by the excessive increase of cars in the universe. A living example of this is in my living area we are seeing an average of three to four cars for every house. In our area we are seeing 16 years old driving their cars to go to school

Cars will cause the end of the universe !

In a few decennia, we will not exist anymore, but our atoms will, following elsewhere the elaboration of the universe

We cannot forget that the poverty of the Occident is Individualism

The drama of our society is that there is so much indifference, so much silence, so much looking elsewhere, so much collective unconsciousness, so much pretending not to see coming from so many individuals who could make the difference

Losing a hand with a winning one so that you can later win with a losing one. Politicians cannot understand that because they want the power now

PHILOSOPHICAL THOUGHTS

Everything Starts With A Thought...

No matter how strong the wind is, the river will never go backward

If the night was not black, no one would notice it

The Paradox of the Specialist vs the Generalist: Those who restrain so much their field of study that they eventually "know everything on nothing" and those who have broaden so much their field of study that they eventually "don't know anything on everything"

A time where death is so close, making life so precious

While some people are fulfilling the remaining months of their lives, others are totally wasting their own

The sun accepts to pass through small windows

A face without a smile is like a house without windows

Be what you is and not what you aint, cause if you're what you aint, you aint what you is

My Philosophy of hard times: being busy doing and not preoccupied by

Pain takes time, it becomes worse before it becomes less

If you have a problem with your life, change life and if you cannot change your life, then change your attitude towards it. If you choose to be miserable, then you don’t need to change anything

There so much value in the pain of the accomplishment of something

The beauty of being human, is that at any time, if we wish, we can change

Life is like a bulb and we have to fill it with a lot of hope

What we choose is not so important, its the reasons why that are important

Everything that happens to us is not important, its how we deal with it that is important

Paradox: We often put everything in our career, we are even lured to it

When there is a doubt, there is no doubt

When silence is more eloquent than the speech

Silence has its reasons - For listening to yourself, to manifest indifference or to heal a wound

Time is sometimes too long for those who wait, often to short for those who fear. It can appear so long for those who cry and so often so short for those who have pleasure. But for those who love, time does not exist

Fill time: with good things and good moments with good reasons

I wish I could fabricate a fabulous present in order to open eyes for the future

Life serves to live and survive

The day when we do not burn of love, others die from cold

Often the heart expends itself when being torn apart

Those I have forgiven cannot hurt me anymore. It's those I have not forgiven who are hurting me

The most wonderful day of our life is tomorrow ! You have to understand what is means

Everyday is one more then we deserve

Old dreams were good dreams. I didn't get them, but I am glad I had them

We dream of things we don’t have and we forget too easily what we have

A lot of human problems come from the incapacity of people to sit, alone, in a room and observe silence

Sometimes obsessions do not have reasons. That is why they are obsessions

We don’t live a life, we live roles

We can spiritually be younger than the young one

Small rules of life: compassion, love, taking conscience, see things the way they are and not like we wish them to be

The law of Karma - a law of cause and effect: If you participate to the cause, you then participate to the effect

We preoccupy so much to look good that we eventually fail to realize who we are

People who carry with themselves their past, poison their present, victimize themselves, are constantly under defense, being unable to appreciate the marvelous coincidences which show up in their lives

We would need two lives! The first one should be to learn how to live

The cowardliness of men and the courage of women

Women are better human beings than men ! They don't make wars, the don't make genocides !

Mirror and Labyrinth: Mirror - all the reflections of ourselves and their consequences, Labyrinth - the losing of ourselves and the re findings

There individuals who "know" at their birth and there are those who are "still searching" when dying

The elders die with souvenirs and children with hopes

Pride can be the food of the small and humbly is the drinking place of the great

Reality can be marvelous, even if life is not. Life can be marvelous even is reality is not

Do not ask for a lighter weight but ask for strong shoulders

Life is made of as much roses as thorns, but we are longer affected on thorns

The importance of life is not to always search for, but to understand and apply what we are able to find

Souvenirs are hidden treasures deep in our heart that are not erased by time

There is an encounter when reality is able to even dazzle the dream

We run after something and we find something else

A man may die, nations may rise or fall, but an idea lives on

Bad news: Why a bad news is often followed by a second one ? The second one will always test what we are made of

After being "so right", you end up being "wrong"

We don’t fail our self, we miss our self, we do not find the self

When we take the hand of someone, we put our heart into his hands

Unfortunately living is a human activity that not to many people know how to do

Dreams or souvenirs - The Paradox

Good intentions are like needles, easy to take, but difficult to achieve

Take the time to laugh, it's music of the soul

If we took the time to take care of our health like we take time for pleasure, we would never be sick

If we wish to have our dream fulfill itself, then the best thing is to wake up

When we cease to row, the current takes us away from our destination

The heart contemplates what the eyes cannot see. The eyes contemplate what the heart has to dream

A rich heart is the sign of a rich mind

Marvelous and best souvenirs are to constantly be rebuilt to allow us to renew better tomorrows

He who lives in the future, does not live; he who lives in the past, twice lives his pains; only he who lives in the present can really be living his life

Dreams are the seasoning of our life

HUMAN RELATIONS

Human Interaction...

In a relationship, the art of communicating is to listen the real message as oppose to what you think or what you want to hear

It is better to go somewhere with someone than nowhere with everybody

At times when I remember being a distant person, I often wonder what could have happened if I had simply taken that person into my arms

If you want some joy, give what you have

If you want a lot of joy, give who you are as a person

My concept of Leadership: make sure you’re not showing it off, make sure it’s silent, if you want it to last

One day, during a conference, an acquaintance who had the very unpleasant habit of showing off his economic success, with the obvious intention of lowering others in their self-esteem, did it again for one time too many. I then told him: "You know I know rich people who are poor and poor people who are rich". He answered then: "I don’t understand". I finished the conversation by telling him: "That’s where your problem is, you are so full of yourself, that you fail to realize that everything you possess is only being loaned to you during your life, it's not what you have that matters, it's your worthwhile contribution to make a better world that matters"

My concept of Communication: Communicating is not necessarily easy for between what I think, what I want to say, what I say, what you want to listen, what you believe you understand and what you understand

The Paradox of rules, procedures and rights smothering us are aspects of a legal technique that promises a permanent fix for human frailty. This legal experiment, we learn every time we encounter it, hasn’t worked out. Modern law has not protected us from stupidity and caprice, but has made stupidity and caprice dominant features of society

Let judgment and personal conviction be important again. Relying on ourselves - rather than the law - to provide answers is not a new ideology. It’s just common sense !

People who cannot see Greatness because of envy, egoism or ignorance

In today’s society there is a great lack of certitude and the definition of needs

Conformist mentality: expectations of our society, our valor is the product of what we have or may have, not who we are

If I did all those things in my life, it was to eventually reach you

Being in peace with yourself is the surest mean to be in peace with others

What causes the vanity of others insupportable, is that it hurts our own

A fulfilled demand is a call that does not need to arrive destination

Unfortunately we are what the perception of others makes of us; when the glance make us marvelous, we feel marvelous. The important is to see ourselves marvelous through our own perception. Most important, we must not be dependent of the perception of others

Respecting my desire or my non desire, whatever it can be, is not to judge it, neither to consider it inferior or less important. Every desire, being possible to be realized nor not, has its right to existence

To pretend to be or to, have the dignity

He who cheats, creates his own defeat

Feeling good with ourselves is not to have the need of the glance or the perception of others

If we do not command respect, we are not respectful

There comes a time in life where you have to plant your feet and affirm who you are, why you are there

PERSONAL GROWTH

Becoming Who You Are Meant To Be...

Everything happens for a reason

Impossible just takes a little longer

Risking is part of Human Advancement

The brick wall is there for a reason

It is not there to prevent you from getting where you want to go

It is there to give you a chance to show how badly you want to get there

There are individuals who cannot be replaced

When so many people think they are old, I feel I am only half way through my life

One of the most important aspect of my how to be is being noble and always act with dignity

I would like to say that I am an excessive person but I also can affirm that there are so many things more important than us in life and in the world

Words have a face - Ideas have a soul

Let the choices you make today be the choices you can live with tomorrow

No matter how bad things are, you still have a chance

Your true nature will be revealed when you will have to deal with disappointment or frustration

Every human being should be in conformity with Principles, if she/he has any

To be brave I need fear

We should live like we think, otherwise, we end up thinking like we should have lived

He or she, whoever it’s going to be, who aspire to become the greatest player of all times, remember the most important thing. You’ll only be the greatest ball hitter/player of all times. That will not bring a contribution to a better world to live in! Humility, one of the 250 character skills of a human being, is the strongest one of all. One of it’s significant explanation says: "Who I am or what I am today, is far from who I want to be tomorrow"

When hard luck or abuse strikes me, my reaction is this: "What do I have to learn from this situation ?"

For me, possessing is not a wealth, it’s only possessing. Being is wealth !

For me, to know the real stuff of a Champion is when he/she isn’t perfect, when he/she isn’t at his/her best, when his/her opponent is at his/her best, if he/she goes down. Then I will know what he/she is made of

Surviving: Paying attention to details. In representation criteria, being able to remember every details for being able to survive. You do whatever needs to be done to save your life. A tight ass attitude is what's going to get you killed

Greatness comes in many forms, it can come from sacrifice, that's the loneliness one

One of my concepts in the Psychology of Winning: teaching the difference between hoping to win and expect to win. An enormous difference !

Everything starts with a thought !

Greatness of nothing to do with money or success

If you have to come up with a great performance, only your guts at the end will make the difference

If we adopt a behavior, we have to assume it’s consequences

We are the choices that we have made

Everything that we can imagine is real

Paradox: Why there is as much effort and sacrifice in failure than in success ?

When I have to express myself in an event, I put all my knowing how to be. I especially don’t forget to bring the Attitude because in the end it’s what’s going to make the difference

If we cease to row then the current will take us away from our destination

He who cheats, always lose

We have no right not to become the best person that we can BE

HAPPINESS

Is Intrinsic...

There is an enormous difference between doing things that we enjoy and those that must be done. That I know !

My relationship with Success and Happiness: Success is getting what I want, Happiness is liking what I have

Happiness is being in harmony with our life, with others and our self. It is being in peace, being conscious and be thankful to life being alive

Happiness is to have a constant form of appreciation, feeling privileged being where we are

Happiness is also taking risks. If we don’t take any risk we get nothing

We confuse so much in our society happiness through owning things. Not so, happiness is being and is not related with wealth or possession

There a system who works full time against happiness: fears that we carry inside us, our point of views full of prejudices

Happiness is above all a state of being, no one is responsible for our happiness

Happiness is a question of common sense. Common sense is rare in our today’s society the queen of absurdity

Happiness is within our reach. It is related to our own sensations, to the universe, to the cosmos, to the beauty of nature

So many people think of happiness only when they suffer. We live, unfortunately, in a culture where we prone "You have to take me as I am", so much that we accept to change only when we have reached an impossible situation. Those people fail to realize that happiness is a full time state of knowing how to be

Happiness is being able to live inside our body, not in our head. Being happy is "being occupied at" and not "being worried by"

Ambition is most of the time incompatible with happiness. Most of the time ambition leads to the constant self-criticism and/or to compare ourselves with others. We have to learn to appreciate ourselves as we are physically and intellectually

One of the rules of happiness is to desire what we have and not have what we want

Happiness: Pretending that its going to take care of itself

Happiness is above all a question of maturity, not to mistake with being happy. Happiness is being able to make the difference between the two

Happiness is when we look for it that we don’t find it

Happiness is the pleasure of the wisdom. Pleasure is the happiness of the fools !

The biggest obstacle to happiness is to dream of having a big one. Let’s learn to cultivate happiness by the droplet, it is the droplets that eventually make oceans

Happiness originates from us and is realized from within us

If you don’t find happiness, maybe you are looking elsewhere, elsewhere than in your shoes, elsewhere than in your home

We are responsible for our happiness

If I am to have an aspiration to happiness, I have to make sure that my own environment has it

Happiness is an Aptitude, a Competence

We talk of happiness when it is absent

Joy can be acquired. It is an attitude. Being joyful is not a facility, it is a will

Happiness is an ephemeral state. Ephemeral when we encounter it as we go though it too fast for us to recognize it. Permanent, as in the state of potentiality, it is everywhere, like oxygen in the air

One word, one smile, happiness is there, within our grasp

Happiness and health consist of having always something to achieve, someone to love, something to hope for

The is no road that leads to happiness, happiness itself is the road

When happiness is there, we have to grasp it and live it. But what is happiness, maybe the instant of living, the encounter of two worlds, the encounter of two human beings

The biggest is joy is the one we share; the most beautiful one is the one we create; the most marvelous one is the one that we cultivate

Happiness is a simple agreement with a human being and the existence that he lives

The foolish person seeks happiness in the distance, the wise person grows it under his feet

PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE

Love Is To Make Sure She Enjoys To Be Around You...

From a human relation point of view, never take anybody for granted, because you'll never know when you're going to lose him

Tender and intense moments are always privileged

One of the aspect of being loved, is to be in such a way so that it is enjoyable and fulfilling to be around us

Women: their invention is Love

Love is born through itself. It’s us that kills it

When love does not triumph, its because it was not there really

I could sleep one night with you during all my life

There is no love, only proof of love

Love is a verb

A time for love. So many people don’t have the time, do not take the time. They can’t, they are too busy

Too many people use freely "I love you" and forget to make the verb

In our quest to find our soul mate, we may encounter a human being who will disturb the course of our life. A king of incertitude that only the strong people can live

We have taken what I had learned to love

Being scared of love, in case of being hurt, is as much absurd as being scared to live, as we know that someday we’re going to die

I wish I was a tear drop from your eyes, living on your face and die on your lips

Going to the end of love, is going to more difference, taking the risk to discover the marvelous, the insufficiency and sometimes the mediocrity of the other

My sufferance is not losing you, it is more in the nostalgia of not having been able to meet you in the inside of you

We receive in love what we put in, nothing more

Love me when I deserve it less, it is specially a that time, that I need to be loved

If you don’t know what to do with your hands, transform them in caresses

If the meeting of our loved one last for ever, we have to always recreate what we did on the first day

Love is like a bird; it flies as much as it has the heart, as far as it has the courage

Sometimes we take so much at heart a cause, through love, in an act of love. Unfortunately, sometimes, the other person does not realize that she has a cause

RELATIONSHIP WITH TIME

Time Is Everything...

The value of Time: You may find one day that you have less then you think

Even if you’re wealthy, you will not be able to buy time

The time in life where you have to justify your existence

Its during hard times that we learn more about ourselves

Sometimes, in times, things that we want less, are those that we need more

I have a full time job: Having time for others

The only time that you fail, is the last time that you keep trying and it works

We have to allow time, the time to do what it has to do

Time is what happened in the past and what we make for the future

Attitude towards time: you can make it your enemy or your allied

Time is everything that can happen at the same time

Time: it can be a predator or your companion

How do we measure time ? In minutes, hours or years ? Should it not be in friendship or love ?

Time is such a bad thief ! It's taking all my time

Time is everything that prevents everything to arrive all at once

We have to be patient, to allow the dream to set itself

If we ask you how many years you want to live ? Always answer: A whole life !

Time is not money like we say so often. Time is everything !

Very often, there are individuals, so much busy that they don’t have time to do anything. The "busy ness of life"

What is cost us, to be right all the time

When comes the time when you have no right to ask me how I feel

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